DISCAIMER: anyone who takes advice from me, do so at your own risk.

lol,that's funny!!

yea just stopping by...an yea jreuij...youre sig is so true...

im gonna go and build up some courage...

see ya!

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The more I read this sentence...the more I think its me offending people... I never meant to offend anyone with my morals.

All I'm trying to do is give someone help. I never had help when I was younger, I always wanted help but could get none, so now I try to give help with the limited knowledge I do have.

I think I'm the only person on here with "radical" morals, so I'm assuming that comment is directed at me, if its not forget everything I've written above...

Starts to wave his arms and say this post was only a dream....only a dream I say.

Well, not to hurt your feelings, but yes...it was directed to you. Your posts are full-out pushing sex, and it's more on lustful thoughts than what the female in the situation might actually want. Sex is a beautiful thing, but one might also consider boundaries that it should be held within, or the fact that it might be preserved? Sex is not something that is made to do with everyone and everything. I'd appreciate it if you'd tone down the lustful implications.

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You're too young to think that, but you're right about keeping things appropriate here.

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Well first off let me say it does not hurt my feelings. I can appreciate others opinions.And if you think my posts have been overly lustful, I think you are reading too deep or misunderstanding my words. I, just now, went a read all my post on this thread. I do not believe any of them were overly lustful.

Now to address a couple of things in my earlier posts and somethings in your current post.

As I read back there were 2 posts that I gave that could of been seen as lustful.1 talking to king of sorrow the other talking to ryu.

The king of sorrow comment was talking about the types of women he tends to meet. He said he was meeting a lot of gay women and married women. Now there is nothing he can do with these women, but maybe talk to them, but nothing for a relationship. If life throws you lemons, make lemonade...So I suggested that maybe he could see if some of the lesbian women were actually bi women (maybe thats why they were talking to him, because they are bi), and I told him that married women are often looking for a lustful affair because their sex life as a married woman has become stale and boring (hence the reason she is seeking an affair or would at least entertain an idea of an affair). Now seeing as these were the type of women he was attracting, or at least seemed to be around, he had 2 choices. Try to find a way to be with the women, or continue doing what he is doing now which is nothing. He is getting nothing now, so if a lesbian chick tells him to buzz off he has lost nothing, he is still at zero. So with the lemons life threw him I was giving suggestions on how to try to make some lemonade with them. Now I will admit that this one had lust in it, but in no way was I pushing lust or sex on him I was just telling him there were more options than he may have thought. It just happened with the types of women he was around the only options he had were lust options. Because a single man has no way to be with a lesbian or a married woman unless the things I mention were going on...

To ryu's comment I think you must have misunderstood on that part. I think you read an "intimate night" and just assumed that meant lustful night. Uhm...intimate is not a nice way to say sex, like so many people say on tv... to be intimate is to be close (most of the time its referring to emotionally), so in a relationship there are 3 parts passion (sex) intimacy (emotional closeness) and either friendship or faithfulness (longevity)I forget the last one. Now when a man cooks a dinner and they eat it by candle light and watch a love movie, this is generally referred to as a romantic date. On romantic dates a very prominate feature is intimacy, spending a night together to bring two people close emotionally. So absolutely no lust was in this comment.

But miss aisho you must remember just like every man does not have my morals, every woman does not share yours. Now in this forum I have stayed away from all seduction techniques. I tried to keep my advice as straight and narrow as possible. I realize that the guys on here are not from the same place I'm from. I actually do have bad morals by comparison to most guys on here, in my opinion. But I am sure not to inject my bad morals into my posts. I will continue not to inject my bad morals into this thread. But anyways every woman does not hold your same position on sex. Some women believe sex is a tool to get what they want, some believe sex is the greatest high, and yet and still some believe sex is the only thing between them and adulthood, so different people look at sex differently. Also it should be noted that the same person can view sex as different things in different parts of their life, I am one of those people.

But this is all horribly off topic, if you wish to discuss my post do so, please. But for me to say at least one thing on topic. ryu that girl is very attractive, if she wasn't so young, I might even be...a little...jealous. What ethnicity is she?

lol, that was long...

yo come on...lets not fight guys...and girls...besides if ya'll are...you've come to the right place...relationships/lovelife thread...isnt that weird? but yea lets not fight about some comment...whatever jigenbakuda says is his own opinion...no need to take it to heart aisho...just let him say what he wants and let him worry about his own stuff

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I didn't think we were fighting...I was just explaining myself. If we were fighting, I would have said dirty words and insulted her mother, lol. She just said she thought I was too lustful in all my posts, I was just explaining how she might have miss-understood, unfortunately it took a whole page to explain, lol. But does it really seem like a fight...