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Re: Relationships/Lovelife Thread
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lol, honestly, konnichiwa-san, I might give you the tip-off that there are many girls (including myself...just using that for proof) that think shy boys are really cute. It makes it all the more special when they gather up the courage to ask a girl out. ^^


*nods nods* Hai i agreed <3 but me ish shy too...so yea lol
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konnichiwa-san wrote:

yea thanks for that..really appreciate it but... i kinda wonder if the girl i like (yea the same girl, havent asked her out yet) feels the same way..she's shy as well.


You don't really know until you ask..... Suck it up and ask her already >_>


dude, its just not as easy for me...i watched this korean sitcom and saw a guy just ask a girl flat out and he didnt even know her very well...kinda the same situation...whenever i see her again i'll try to build up the sense of courage...its just too hard for me...gosh..its pissing me off now...how hard it is to say just 6 six simple words to a girl...but age is a problem too...well not really but the difference is kinda big...im 18 (19 in 21 days) and she's 21 i think... but the is still there
Posted on: 2008/2/7 5:10
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konnichiwa-san wrote:
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konnichiwa-san wrote:

yea thanks for that..really appreciate it but... i kinda wonder if the girl i like (yea the same girl, havent asked her out yet) feels the same way..she's shy as well.


You don't really know until you ask..... Suck it up and ask her already >_>


dude, its just not as easy for me...i watched this korean sitcom and saw a guy just ask a girl flat out and he didnt even know her very well...kinda the same situation...whenever i see her again i'll try to build up the sense of courage...its just too hard for me...gosh..its pissing me off now...how hard it is to say just 6 six simple words to a girl...but age is a problem too...well not really but the difference is kinda big...im 18 (19 in 21 days) and she's 21 i think... but the is still there


Yea it's not easy for a person to ask the one you like out(or love)....I haveing my own problems dealing with that...today I see the guy I like and he knows that I like him and that I'm trying to get over him...it sux major butt....
Posted on: 2008/2/7 6:23
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hey whatever happened to the guy that liked you on here?
Posted on: 2008/2/7 6:26
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hey whatever happened to the guy that liked you on here?


He doesn't get on here....plus I don't see him that way.....
Posted on: 2008/2/7 6:31
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  •  CrescentLupin9
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Ganbatte Konni-chan! Chi-chan! ^ - ^ i know you guys are good people and one day it'll bring good things to you guys :3
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konnichiwa-san wrote:
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^Eclipse wrote:
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konnichiwa-san wrote:

yea thanks for that..really appreciate it but... i kinda wonder if the girl i like (yea the same girl, havent asked her out yet) feels the same way..she's shy as well.


You don't really know until you ask..... Suck it up and ask her already >_>


dude, its just not as easy for me...i watched this korean sitcom and saw a guy just ask a girl flat out and he didnt even know her very well...kinda the same situation...whenever i see her again i'll try to build up the sense of courage...its just too hard for me...gosh..its pissing me off now...how hard it is to say just 6 six simple words to a girl...but age is a problem too...well not really but the difference is kinda big...im 18 (19 in 21 days) and she's 21 i think... but the is still there


Please remember the longer you know a woman, the harder it is to ask her to be in a non-plutonic relationship with you. Because every minute you know her, it become more uncomfortable to ask to be in a relationsip, or to confess.

So in your example, the guy had an easier time asking a chick he didn't know, I'm sure of it. If you have seen her more than once, it keeps getting harder and harder everytime. Man asking chicks out it hard sh*t, don't let anyone fool you... But please don't make it harder on yourself by waiting. She already knows her answer, you just need to find out. If she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn't you can't change that. So my friend just remember that and ask her. Don't think about how bad it will hurt when she says no, think about how good it will feel when she says yes!

So to wrap up asking out is like this, easier to ask random stranger out, harder to ask friend out. If you wait, it will only get harder. And lastly, think positive, and just because one girl likes/dislikes you, does not mean the others feel the same way. You never know who is looking at you and day dreaming :)
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Awwww thats sweet Jige-san, and i agree with you wholeheartedly.
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konnichiwa-san wrote:
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^Eclipse wrote:
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konnichiwa-san wrote:

yea thanks for that..really appreciate it but... i kinda wonder if the girl i like (yea the same girl, havent asked her out yet) feels the same way..she's shy as well.


You don't really know until you ask..... Suck it up and ask her already >_>


dude, its just not as easy for me...i watched this korean sitcom and saw a guy just ask a girl flat out and he didnt even know her very well...kinda the same situation...whenever i see her again i'll try to build up the sense of courage...its just too hard for me...gosh..its pissing me off now...how hard it is to say just 6 six simple words to a girl...but age is a problem too...well not really but the difference is kinda big...im 18 (19 in 21 days) and she's 21 i think... but the is still there


Please remember the longer you know a woman, the harder it is to ask her to be in a non-plutonic relationship with you. Because every minute you know her, it become more uncomfortable to ask to be in a relationsip, or to confess.

So in your example, the guy had an easier time asking a chick he didn't know, I'm sure of it. If you have seen her more than once, it keeps getting harder and harder everytime. Man asking chicks out it hard sh*t, don't let anyone fool you... But please don't make it harder on yourself by waiting. She already knows her answer, you just need to find out. If she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn't you can't change that. So my friend just remember that and ask her. Don't think about how bad it will hurt when she says no, think about how good it will feel when she says yes!

So to wrap up asking out is like this, easier to ask random stranger out, harder to ask friend out. If you wait, it will only get harder. And lastly, think positive, and just because one girl likes/dislikes you, does not mean the others feel the same way. You never know who is looking at you and day dreaming :)


I agree because it's completely true the more i got to know Robert(the guy I like) the harder it was for me to confess my true feeling plus he had a gurlfriend(they recently broke up)....but you IF she doesn't like you that just shows that you don't need her and there is someone even BETTER for you out there in the ocean!!!xD
Posted on: 2008/2/7 11:29
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