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  •  GIGAcorrupt
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Re: The Relationship and Lovelife Thread
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TadakoXIII wrote:
O_O oh, wow... you thought about all of your GFs? like, your past ex's ?? X: Wow.


O.o umm...no. I thought of the girl I'm with...not girls

@ VAL ...if I had gotten her number I'm pretty sure she would know I'm interested and expect a date. Plus if I spoke to her more, I think I would start liking her more. when we talked I thought about cheating..but I can't do that..that's why..

@ L ...If I knew your email by heart I would have given it to her..even if she thought I was a wierdo but I'm never going to see her again...
Posted on: 2009/5/6 9:32
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Re: The Relationship and Lovelife Thread
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GIGAcorrupt wrote:
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TadakoXIII wrote:
O_O oh, wow... you thought about all of your GFs? like, your past ex's ?? X: Wow.


O.o umm...no. I thought of the girl I'm with...not girls



OH. ROFLZ, TOTALLY MISUNDERSTOOD YOU, DUDE. 8D Yeah... i only get other guys' numbers if i need it. Like asking them if we had hw or w/e. XD


You know what? Two of my closest friends have had a recent 'fall out' thing with their BFs.. one of them already broke up with her bf a week ago (almost no one knows about this yet) and the other one seems to be struggling with the current relationship. I'm doing totally fine with MY bf and even though we hardly see each other during school semesters (he dorms an hour out of state and i'm always too busy to visit ;_; ) we've still been pretty top notch. We're very loyal to each other. But then i realized that there's one significant difference between me and my other two friends .... it's that I'm not that exposed to other guys as much as they are. Or rather, I don't often get TOO close with other guys even in a friendly based relationship (my current closest guy friend is having issues with himself and i haven't talked to him in some time so i feel like we've drifted) ... my bf is very out-of-the-loop in my circle of friends, which has proven to be a good thing so far. It doesn't seem to cause too many problem for us. Buuuut ... i dunno, if i were exposed to more guys that i could potentially get closer to, i often wonder if it would effect my current relationship. i can't imagine falling out of love with my current bf though. >_>

Or, maybe since i'm SO loyal to my bf that i subconsciously make myself a bit more reserved with other guys because in my head i tell myself, "i have made a rly srs commitment to my bf, k?" and thus a small psychological click just happens to me ?!!?! lolzwot.


loooooooolz wtf long rant. XD
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Posted on: 2009/5/6 19:23
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  •  Suroki
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TadakoXIII wrote:
Aaahhh, that's good to hear!! X'D hooray relationships!! Lolz, yeah, my bf is. like. totally opposite of me. I'm all bubbly and friendly and he's all reserved and sarcastic. I'm an artist and I'm just SOOO not academically together... he's like a straight-A intellect and is aiming to be a doctor. I am the much more simple minded one too. :D I'm also a tan Filipino girl and he's a pale irish man!! :heart: I could go on forever and ever but yeah. heehee.


OMG, okay, so I was following this thread when it started picking up again, and you made your intro post about how you'd been dating your boyfriend for like 4 (5?) years, and I thought, "Cool, I've been with mine for 3." I didn't think I had anything post-worthy, but THEN I READ THIS!

I'm a semi-tan half Thai girl! And my boyfriend is a pale Irish man too!! XD

LMAO. They must be the best. XD
Posted on: 2009/5/6 19:30
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Re: Relationships/Lovelife Thread
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Suroki wrote:
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TadakoXIII wrote:
Aaahhh, that's good to hear!! X'D hooray relationships!! Lolz, yeah, my bf is. like. totally opposite of me. I'm all bubbly and friendly and he's all reserved and sarcastic. I'm an artist and I'm just SOOO not academically together... he's like a straight-A intellect and is aiming to be a doctor. I am the much more simple minded one too. :D I'm also a tan Filipino girl and he's a pale irish man!! I could go on forever and ever but yeah. heehee.


OMG, okay, so I was following this thread when it started picking up again, and you made your intro post about how you'd been dating your boyfriend for like 4 (5?) years, and I thought, "Cool, I've been with mine for 3." I didn't think I had anything post-worthy, but THEN I READ THIS!

I'm a semi-tan half Thai girl! And my boyfriend is a pale Irish man too!! XD

LMAO. They must be the best. XD


ROFL. ASIAN/IRISH COMBO GO GO!! XDDDD HEEELL YAARRR WHITE BOYS.

funny, my idealized dream BF before all this were... like... fob asian boys... no idea how it turned out this way. XDD
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Posted on: 2009/5/6 21:09
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I thought things were ok with my boyfriend and me... But they're not. He doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore or not. He says it's because I get angry easily and often lately, but I can't help it. I've been under an enormous amount of stress the last month or so - I just found out I lost my full-time job at the school (not going back next year), I'm no longer receiving student loans (application got denied), and my boss won't give me full-time hours at the restaurant now. All of those things have cut severely into my money situation and I'm way behind on paying all of my bills. Plus some other problems I have right now.

So of course I started crying.. 'Cuz this conversation was going on at 1 a.m. and it was so out of the blue. He's saying that he said from day 1 he wasn't ready for a relationship (esp. a committed one), but then he's with me for nearly a year? I mean, how does that happen? I thought the entire time since he finally said "somos novios" that we were committed. Even more so since he let my daughter get attached to him and sent a video DVD of our vacation to Gatlinburg.

When I asked him if I needed to pack his stuff, he just said "it's all up to you" and i'm like.... "I REALLY don't have time for games right now. Either you want to be with me or you don't and you need to make a decision".

To WHICH he said we could still be friends, but Jamie isn't friends with exes. EVER. It's all or nothing.

There's a lot more to the situation besides just those things. He's taking his ex-wife to court for denying him visitation of their son and a bunch of other things, but I guess he just won't want me anymore when he gets to see his son again...
Posted on: 2009/6/3 7:57
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  •  SwallowTail
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abunai wrote:
I thought things were ok with my boyfriend and me... But they're not. He doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore or not. He says it's because I get angry easily and often lately, but I can't help it. I've been under an enormous amount of stress the last month or so - I just found out I lost my full-time job at the school (not going back next year), I'm no longer receiving student loans (application got denied), and my boss won't give me full-time hours at the restaurant now. All of those things have cut severely into my money situation and I'm way behind on paying all of my bills. Plus some other problems I have right now.

So of course I started crying.. 'Cuz this conversation was going on at 1 a.m. and it was so out of the blue. He's saying that he said from day 1 he wasn't ready for a relationship (esp. a committed one), but then he's with me for nearly a year? I mean, how does that happen? I thought the entire time since he finally said "somos novios" that we were committed. Even more so since he let my daughter get attached to him and sent a video DVD of our vacation to Gatlinburg.

When I asked him if I needed to pack his stuff, he just said "it's all up to you" and i'm like.... "I REALLY don't have time for games right now. Either you want to be with me or you don't and you need to make a decision".

To WHICH he said we could still be friends, but Jamie isn't friends with exes. EVER. It's all or nothing.

There's a lot more to the situation besides just those things. He's taking his ex-wife to court for denying him visitation of their son and a bunch of other things, but I guess he just won't want me anymore when he gets to see his son again...


Now i understand with your comment on post your pict thread.

I want to say i understand your feeling but it wasn't right, because i didn't experience your experience

You seem to have a big test with your life over and over. Maybe you getting tired with this words " maybe God gives a test to you to make you more stronger with your life, or God have some kind plan for you, and give you a better life someday".

I don't know what to say right now, i hope you can still keep yourself together ... for you and your daughter. Don't loose your hope and Best of Luck to you
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Well.. yeah, it's officially over.. It's just hard.

I didn't want to say anything to our boss, but I told him I'm not feeling well (of course he didn't buy it 'cuz I went over there yesterday to get my check), and I told him to ask my ex.. He didn't understand me, so I told him what happened and he called and told me just to stay home 'cuz he didn't want me to stab anyone with a machete from the kitchen (that's what we call the big knives lol) and that he'd see me tomorrow, not to worry about anything, just relax and "no bud light, guera".. heh.

I just thought that he would be the one person I could trust to not hurt me, 'cuz everyone else has - including my family. And of all the times to break up with me, he had to pick now.

Thank you though, SwallowTail... *hugs!*
Posted on: 2009/6/5 17:53
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  •  Studebaker
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whee I totally just made a topic on ranting, but since this is just one big discussion on relationships here goes..

Men suck. Ass. They suck ass. And it's funny, because I don't think I can live without them. Honestly, if I was just asexual, I'd be a less unfortunate person.

lol, I didn't really put anything personal.
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Hey guys I'm back.

I totally know who JJ's talking about. hehehehehehehehe.

I know what you mean when you say it's difficult to forget.
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  •  laijunjie14
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CHICKEN wrote:
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CHICKEN wrote:
aww thats mean jj but it takes time hun just look at some cute guys ^x^ lol jk jk

but its hard getting over someone =[ i need someone to help me for get someone but i'm know im almost there forgetting my love one o(^o^)o


only remedy is time

its already almost a year, and im still trying my best


yea the whole time is remedy is true

and trying your best? what do you mean by that?


to forget someone of course
she's also a forumer here too


lol oh yea its hard :| do u even know if she likes u back?


@dorkie_bunny relationships are hard but not that doesnt mean they suck hehe it all depends on who u r going out with


if she likes me back, which is impossible, i'll die
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