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  •  azhar0153
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can you give me advice?

I never been in a special relationship.
I think the way of my approach is always not good.
and I got so nervous when talk to "wanted" girl.
after final exam (now grade 12), I have a plan to express my love to her. XD
Posted on: 2009/12/21 4:20
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The thing with relationships, I think, is that you can't really "force" it. I don't know how to explain really.

What I mean is, it's always better to be friends first, without the pressure of the possibility of falling into a relationship with that special someone. Y'know? I think you should try being her friend first, but be a little bit nicer than just a friend.

Hope that helped ! lol
Posted on: 2009/12/21 13:23
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The thing with relationships, I think, is that you can't really "force" it. I don't know how to explain really.

What I mean is, it's always better to be friends first, without the pressure of the possibility of falling into a relationship with that special someone. Y'know? I think you should try being her friend first, but be a little bit nicer than just a friend.

Hope that helped ! lol

Yup, I agree with Abunai! :) But what makes you like her so much? I liked this guy for months! Almost a year! And I just realized that he was a total jerk, so I waisted my percious time and heart on that idoit! :/

I'm just saying make sure the person you like is worth liking, not someone that easily break your heart. That's why it's better to become friends first and really get to know the person. :D
Posted on: 2010/1/8 9:02
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Yeah, you definitely don't wanna get blindsided like that. It happened to me before, too. I met this dude i thought was just drop dead gorgeous (he's soooo ugly to me now) and we dated for around 6 months. He was the worst person on the planet literally.

My bf and I were friends first. And now we might get engaged hopefully lol. He's my best best friend still as well as my boyfriend.
Posted on: 2010/1/8 13:25
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aww thats cute abunai :)

and omg! yesterday i went to the mall feeling like crap and this hispanic guy started hitting on me, but i so rejected him i lied to him about my name and where i was from hahaha so mean :))

and today i went to a different mall and this older guy was hitting on me but i was glad that he didn't ask for my number like the other guy :D
Posted on: 2010/1/13 15:05
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lol! I've done that before. I told this dude I was gay once, but it backfired on me. He was like "Daaaaang girl, that's hot".

My bf is Mexican ^_^ lol he's cute though.

He won't tell his mom about me though, even though he's met MY parents (which was very nerve-wracking). He's all "I'm calling my mom, so don't talk. I don't want her to get mad with me" and then told me that his mom wants him to go back home and marry a "nice Mexican girl" instead of another guera.
Posted on: 2010/1/15 9:10
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  •  percypenn
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hey azhar,

there is no right approach in telling a girl you like her. its a case to case basis. the wrong thing is to do nothing. there is nothing worse than having regrets in your life.i've been there so i know what im talking about.

anyway, after your exam is over, why dont you ask her to eat out or go to the mall or something. be honest cuz girls like that.
Posted on: 2010/1/15 12:17
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lol! I've done that before. I told this dude I was gay once, but it backfired on me. He was like "Daaaaang girl, that's hot".

My bf is Mexican ^_^ lol he's cute though.

He won't tell his mom about me though, even though he's met MY parents (which was very nerve-wracking). He's all "I'm calling my mom, so don't talk. I don't want her to get mad with me" and then told me that his mom wants him to go back home and marry a "nice Mexican girl" instead of another guera.


lmfao! awww how complicated :O
im half hispanic but my family can be
picky on what the guys culture is and all that
stuff lmfao! but they would accept any guys as long
as the guy is Christian i really don't know they would accept him if he was in a different relgion and stuff :O

and guys keep still hit on me >.< its still pissing me off! :/
Posted on: 2010/1/17 17:51
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abunai wrote:
lol! I've done that before. I told this dude I was gay once, but it backfired on me. He was like "Daaaaang girl, that's hot".

My bf is Mexican ^_^ lol he's cute though.

He won't tell his mom about me though, even though he's met MY parents (which was very nerve-wracking). He's all "I'm calling my mom, so don't talk. I don't want her to get mad with me" and then told me that his mom wants him to go back home and marry a "nice Mexican girl" instead of another guera.


lmfao! awww how complicated :O
im half hispanic but my family can be
picky on what the guys culture is and all that
stuff lmfao! but they would accept any guys as long
as the guy is Christian i really don't know they would accept him if he was in a different relgion and stuff :O

and guys keep still hit on me >.< its still pissing me off! :/


Eh.. My dad is more on the "I'd rather you not know what a boy is period" level. 'Cuz I'm the baby and he's all psycho and stuff. Annnnd 'cuz my mom's a doormat, she goes with whatever my dad says so that there's no arguing.

He did tell me once when I was 8 that he'd disown me if I ever dated a black guy. There were no Mexicans in my hometown back then. Ha.

Bf's uncles and aunts love me though. They're cool, so I figure if they liked me a lot, his mom will too eventually. It's 'cuz my bf's ex-wife is a you-know-what. And Mexican women completely baby their sons. So yeah.
Posted on: 2010/1/18 13:58
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  •  Alohano
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...lady hangout buddy to watch Bohemian Summer 2000, Budokan 2004, United 2006 while cruisin around Honolulu.

Not romantic...friendly fellow Hikki fan.

Send a message! Coffee's on me!
Posted on: 2010/1/18 19:08
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