okay here's the deal :O

i like this guy and he knows it but were just firends (he was talking to one of my friend at the time when i told him)

anyhoo were going to the same college :O and we've been texting eachother once in awhile and we do its for a long time :|

so he knows that were going to the same college and im not too sure if i should meet up with him before or after school *gasp*

because i basically got over him during summer vacation and if i get those feelings back idk what i would do -__________-"

i dont want to get hurt but would it be wrong to ignore him??

ahh! idk what should i do :/

♥♥

It's just that I'm struggling in general. He's pretty well put his foot down about not moving in with me right now even though he said he would a long time ago.

On the plus side, we went to my sister's house and had dinner with my sister's gf and drank margaritas. My sister's gf was ilke "OMG He's soooo effing sweet and cute. You really need to hang on to him. He's such an awesome guy.", which was surprising 'cuz yeah. It just was.

The thing that you guys aren't getting though...is that I still feel for her alot, but I don't hurt like I should. A friend I haven't seen over a year came over to talk to me...he thought I was depressed, but I feel perfectly fine...sure I wasn't able to sleep for 3 days and I didn't get hungry...but I realized that I shouldnt feel like that If she isn't the girl I'm finally able to live with for the rest of my life...when I meet that person...then I will be miserable...and I will be happy also...

But right now...I'm not letting that happen. I'm pretty good actually :) It's true, I do let my mind drift off and make me think about her and what happened between us from time to time...but I manage to shake it off.

And well...we did meet yesterday...we were together...and well...something pretty strange happened today...we hald't been talking much since Monday...through phone I mean. Right when I woke up today I got a message from her...I found it strange...I thought it would stop after several messages, but...it she just got happy for no reason O.O she also said she couldnt sleep, that she kept waking up. We chatted back and forth all day...even now, she hasn't gone to bed and I'm still getting messages from her O.O

So I guess she's confused the living life out of me...I don't really know what's going on with her...and I'm very unsure if she's planning on falling for me again...I just find it really strange. GAH!!!

Ohh, and Abunai...when a couple splits and manages to get back together, it's usually because both parties are willing to make it work. In other words...they're working together and giving it their all to nurture their love and bring it back to life. If there is uneasy-ness...it's usually because it's not as strong anymore...or it isn't at the moment...so if you still feel the same about him and still feel it isn't working out...well...you should sit down with him and talk about it. Because he (like you) should try your best to make it work.

I hear that the end result can be a much better relationship...

My best of wishes to ya ^^ and everyone else :D

You got my sympathy Giga, at least you and her still a friend and you got a wonderful time and memory with her. Just like other said, time to move on, even its hurt but it is not the end of the world

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The best way to do this is to listen to Kanye's 808s and Heartbreak. Or read soem emo poetry.

Yeah.. And besides.. It may not be the same as it was before if you guys do get back together.

I still love my boyfriend, but I just don't feel like things between us are the way they should be.

time to move on man.

She said to me that she cares about me and that she needs to think about everything, because she's "confused" and well, I was told by her friend that God said to her that we should separate. I'm thinking that maybe she forced her feelings away from me because of her thoughtsand perhaps fear of what cold happen. Our relationship was the longest one she's had...and that's what I'm trying to find out. If she did force herself, then maybe if we still spend time together I can slowly bring her back to me.

I'm not getting my hopes up too high up though, because if I do and nothing happens, well...it'll hurt much more..

Giga I know how you feel man. That's how my boyfriend was during the time we were separated. He just wanted to be "friends".

Like 3 days after he broke up with me, he came over to my house. He was all "you understand we're just friends, right?" and then of course expected to get something anyway. Thankfully, we're back together.

Being friends with an ex is tough. Normally, I refuse to be friends once a bf and I break up.

Anyway, the feelings are still there, which is what makes things hard. And I think that if a couple who recently separated continue to hang out, it confuses things greatly.

I could say more on this, but I kinda feel like what I've said already doesn't make much sense.. haha

........so........after dating my girl for 5 months...and being a couple for 4 months...well...we just got separated this past Sunday :/

I thought I would feel extremely sad about it...and I did for the first 3 days...but now, I'm just getting used to not texting her ALL DAY LONG...I still feel and care for her a bunch, but I don't know...right now we are "friends"

but its a bit wierd...because I just went out with her again today and watched a movie together...another friend was with us...but he sat REALLY FAR AWAY O.O its like not a relationship anymore...but...it's like...like...I have no clue actually...I'm pretty darn confused O.O