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  •  LoBFCanti
      LoBFCanti
Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Insane Hikki Fan
Joined: 2009/3/5
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Yeah yvliew...jusr to be safe because I'd like this thread to stay around until a point of understanding is reach....rename the thread.
Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:15
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  •  paisith
      paisith
Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Addicted to Hikki
Joined: 2008/12/29
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Please stop all insulting to Hikki.

I agree with jesuislm.

If you still want to post like that,please post them in other web board.

and I believe if you really love her,you will not post a rudely images and talk about her in insulting terms even its look very innocence.
Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:18
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Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Hikki Obsessed
Joined: 2007/2/10
A/S/L 18/GQ?/CA
Posts: 431
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bobo444 wrote:
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Shurikid wrote:
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bobo444 wrote:
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Shurikid wrote:
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jesuislm wrote:
i'm in shock.
like wow.
i'm so glad i was on hiatus from this forum when the "hikki boobs fan club" showed up.
i would have thrown a fit.
it's ridiculous to have a fan club like that,
and it is degrading. i can't even believe that people are arguing that it's not.
so what, a girl can't wear a low cut shirt without expecting men to treat her like an object?
excuse me, but i see guys with their shirts of and i don't make a chest fan club for my favorite male celebrities.
want to know why? because you shouldn't be a fan of someone's body and only that unless this person is a porn star or sexualizes themselves for fame.
i mean, we can all agree: hikki is pretty, but that's not what she's about.

think about it:
if hikki saw a boob fan club for herself,
she wouldn't think it was nice,
funny,
amusing.
no.
it's insulting.
and anyone who tries to say otherwise, is through and through a fool. and an oblivious one at that.

Finally, a girl. You know you're the ONLY ONE to make a compelling argument against this thread so far? It's still faulted, however. You're assuming that the men in the "boobs fan club" viewed Hikki as an object- that's not necessarily true. What you're essentially saying is that men can not express appreciation for a prominent part of the female anatomy without viewing them on the same level as silverware or house furniture? That's ridiculous. Simply because you're attracted to someone or something AND SAY IT does not mean that you are degrading them.
And I'll bet you anything you HAVE discussed with your friends actors and singers you thought were "hot" or "sexy" or "cute". Or your friends have made similar comments to you and you have not objected. Do you think every time my sister makes googly eyes at Joe Jonas and says "he's so hot" she's demeaning him? Or does that only apply to women?
Speaking of clothes, I'm transgendered myself, so I would like to explain to you a little something about men. If you wear a dress or a shirt that reveals your breasts, they will look at them. If you wear pants or a mini-skirt that are designed to be sexually enticing, men are likely to be sexually enticed. If you don't want people looking at your body, wear a full-body cloak and a mask: otherwise, suck it up and realize that your low-cut shirt and high-tailed skirt are going to turn men on. Don't wear pants with "JUICY" written across your buttocks if you don't want men reading it; don't wear shirts with writing on your cleavage if you don't want men looking there. No one dresses you but you, and it's your responsibility to cover what you want covered and show what you'd like people to see. It's that simple.

Shuri/Eli




He ?warned? just at what stage did have any of have the authority to ?warn?, and who gave him that authority, this was the same excuse that all bigots use to justified there actions, and as a radio producer from time to time these issues are fully debated, and Shurikid, societies attitudes towards sexism affect your little Sister as much as my Children, so don?t kid your self they don?t , many thousands of letter arrive every week demanding broadcasters present women in a positive light, do you honestly believe that a boob thread does this is a positive fashion ?

There was nothing sexist about the thread. Show me evidence that there was. Please.
Let me put it this way. Would you feel demeaned and offended if a women complimented your abs? Regardless of whether you have any in real life, would that make you feel threatened and disconcerted? No. You would feel complimented. Women play the gender card way too much. There are actual legitimate concerns facing females; healthy sexually active men staring at pictures of a celebrity's boobs is not one of them. :/

Shuri/Eli



You are attempting to defend the indefensible and failing, sorry but you are digging a deeper hole for yourself every time your lips move or your fingers hit the keyboard

Why? Because you said so? Oh, dear. I'm so very frightened of the big dark hole ahead of me. I may be defending the indefensible, but at least I can defend that. You're pulling at strings to try and make a mountain out of a mole hill.

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GIGAcorrupt wrote:

And to make a thread that specifically points out the actions of Val(swallowtail) is just ABSURD

Again, I don't think anyone here is trying to crucify Swallowtail. I have nothing against him. I know he did what he thought was right. He was wrong. As soon as the ship's been patched we can all go on our merry way.

Shuri/Eli
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Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:20
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Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Hikki Obsessed
Joined: 2009/7/14
A/S/L eighteen&female&california
Posts: 213
i didn't read the thread.
i read the title.
i'm not saying that guys aren't going to be turned on by a girl in a low cut shirt.
i'm not saying that that's a bad thing.
i'm not saying that guys can't like a girl's body.
i think guys are cute, celebrities included,
LOBFCanti can totally vouch for that.
but, Lo, when was the last time i said,
"tom felton... i just want to look at his (oh and i'm censoring myself here) all day long!"
why not, because i mean, what the hell? it's wrong.

i'm saying that naming something the "hikki boobs fan club" is degrading.
c'mon, it is!
we all know it is.
at least i hope we all know it!
it could've been the "hikki's really pretty fan club"
and i would have been like, what's the big deal?

i mean, really people?
c'mon!
Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:21
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Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Hikki Obsessed
Joined: 2007/2/10
A/S/L 18/GQ?/CA
Posts: 431
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jesuislm wrote:
i didn't read the thread.
i read the title.
i'm not saying that guys aren't going to be turned on by a girl in a low cut shirt.
i'm not saying that that's a bad thing.
i'm not saying that guys can't like a girl's body.
i think guys are cute, celebrities included,
LOBFCanti can totally vouch for that.
but, Lo, when was the last time i said,
"tom felton... i just want to look at his (oh and i'm censoring myself here) all day long!"
why not, because i mean, what the hell? it's wrong.

i'm saying that naming something the "hikki boobs fan club" is degrading.
c'mon, it is!
we all know it is.
at least i hope we all know it!
it could've been the "hikki's really pretty fan club"
and i would have been like, what's the big deal?

i mean, really people?
c'mon!

So you're saying the only thing you object to is the title of the thread and the word "boobs"? You support the closing of a popular discussion based on nothing but SEMANTICS? Oh, shites! Why didn't you just say so?
Hey, ylview, just re-title the thread "hikki's really pretty fan club" and everything should be A-OK! :3

Really, why don't you "come on"? I submit that there is nothing wrong with having an interest in a woman's boobs. There would also be nothing wrong with you having an interest a man's chest. This is how the human mind functions. We are attracted to other people for a reason. It's perfectly natural. Why not discuss it openly instead of trying to repress a basic human urge?

Shuri/Eli
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Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:27
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  •  GIGAcorrupt
      GIGAcorrupt
Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Insane Hikki Fan
Joined: 2008/3/1
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Posts: 1193
Quote:

Shurikid wrote:


Again, I don't think anyone here is trying to crucify Swallowtail. I have nothing against him. I know he did what he thought was right. He was wrong. As soon as the ship's been patched we can all go on our merry way.



Let me make this clear for ya. THE DAMN TITLE IS WHAT'S WRONG. Even here, I know y'all aren't bashing out on SwallowTail, but it's the title that gives off the wrong impression and makes people make it go the wrong way.

But even so, the thread has semi-sexual factors...that aren't usually approved here. There for SwallowTail did what he thought was right and what members think is morally right. So no matter how its looked at, even if it's renamed it's not comming back. I'm sure Q would have done the same thing
Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:31
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Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Hikki Obsessed
Joined: 2009/7/14
A/S/L eighteen&female&california
Posts: 213
Quote:

Shurikid wrote:
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jesuislm wrote:
i didn't read the thread.
i read the title.
i'm not saying that guys aren't going to be turned on by a girl in a low cut shirt.
i'm not saying that that's a bad thing.
i'm not saying that guys can't like a girl's body.
i think guys are cute, celebrities included,
LOBFCanti can totally vouch for that.
but, Lo, when was the last time i said,
"tom felton... i just want to look at his (oh and i'm censoring myself here) all day long!"
why not, because i mean, what the hell? it's wrong.

i'm saying that naming something the "hikki boobs fan club" is degrading.
c'mon, it is!
we all know it is.
at least i hope we all know it!
it could've been the "hikki's really pretty fan club"
and i would have been like, what's the big deal?

i mean, really people?
c'mon!

So you're saying the only thing you object to is the title of the thread and the word "boobs"? You support the closing of a popular discussion based on nothing but SEMANTICS? Oh, shites! Why didn't you just say so?
Hey, ylview, just re-title the thread "hikki's really pretty fan club" and everything should be A-OK! :3

Really, why don't you "come on"? I submit that there is nothing wrong with having an interest in a woman's boobs. There would also be nothing wrong with you having an interest a man's chest. This is how the human mind functions. We are attracted to other people for a reason. It's perfectly natural. Why not discuss it openly instead of trying to repress a basic human urge?

Shuri/Eli


i'd like to see the world in which no one suppressed their basic human urges. that argument is based on loose air.
Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:36
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Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Hikki Obsessed
Joined: 2007/2/10
A/S/L 18/GQ?/CA
Posts: 431
Quote:

GIGAcorrupt wrote:
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GIGAcorrupt wrote:

And to make a thread that specifically points out the actions of Val(swallowtail) is just ABSURD

Again, I don't think anyone here is trying to crucify Swallowtail. I have nothing against him. I know he did what he thought was right. He was wrong. As soon as the ship's been patched we can all go on our merry way.



Let me make this clear for ya. THE DAMN TITLE IS WHAT'S WRONG. Even here, I know y'all aren't bashing out on SwallowTail, but it's the title that gives off the wrong impression.

But even so, the thread has semi-sexual factors...that aren't usually approved here. There for SwallowTail did what he thought was right and what members think is morally right. So no matter how its looked at, even if it's renamed it's not comming back. I'm sure Q would have done the same thing

I can understand about the title of the thread. But seeing as Swallowtail was the one who closed the thread and this is a contention of that choice, it's only fair that his name be mentioned.

WHAT MEMBERS? I don't think it was "morally right". Apparently a vast number of the people who contributed to that thread did not think it was "morally right" for it to be closed. This is what I'm saying! You can't impose a supposedly widely accepted social doctrine on EVERYONE on face value! If there are in fact rules explicitly rejecting such threads as inappropriate, which I have not seen, please bring them to my attention and I will consider the notion that Swallowtail was in the right. HOWEVER, Swallowtail did not cite any rules upon closing the thread, he cited a PERSONAL OBJECTION to the content of the thread, which simply does not hold the same water, and that is what I am working off of and trying to comprehend.

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jesuislm wrote:

i'd like to see the world in which no one suppressed their basic human urges. that argument is based on loose air.

A basic human urge. I take things on a case by case basis, unlike some people who like to apply sweeping standards to every little nook and cranny of human civilization. I must emphasize that this thread was not of harm to anyone. It's not like I support people running around killing each other because they have the urge to. But I don't see any reason men should be prohibited from discussing the female body. It's not like talking about it is going to make them respect you less. Again, I don't even have any sexual attachment to it whatsoever, so how would I be demeaning you by commenting on your breasts? It's just like complimenting your hair or your eyes. Hikki is pretty in many ways. Why allow expression of appreciation for one part of her body and not another?

Shuri/Eli
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Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:41
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  •  LoBFCanti
      LoBFCanti
Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Insane Hikki Fan
Joined: 2009/3/5
A/S/L 20/M/Brooklyn,NY
Posts: 1226
If that is really what got the thread closed then fine.Giga is actually right.My accidental rape thread did go against forum rules and it was explained to me as such by both Q and ST upon being locked.In this case it seemed like it was ST own agenda to stop the thread out of respect for Utada.The respect he thought we lacked by posting there.The name itself wasn't the reason for the thread getting locked.Pips getting flame my ghostdog(-_-) wasn't even the reason.SwallowTail's opinion was.Or at least that was the explanation given.
Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:45
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  •  GIGAcorrupt
      GIGAcorrupt
Re: Swallowtail and his imagination
Insane Hikki Fan
Joined: 2008/3/1
A/S/L Potato. Genderless. Underground
Posts: 1193
Quote:

Shurikid wrote:
WHAT MEMBERS?


Well, there are male members and some of the girls around, plus all the members that are under age!

EDIT:

O.O Thanks for agreeing(?) Canti O.O

Plus Q had an eye on the thread...he just didn't let it be known
Posted on: 2009/8/24 23:48
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