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Re: Hikaru Utada’s mother found dead in Shinjuku, suicide suspected | ||
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UtadaNet Newbie
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Uh...
Do you really think that's appropriate to post? I know that this is a fansite dedicated to Utada Hikaru, but she is clearly emotionally traumatized in this video. Would you be okay with people filming you and having cameras flash in your face while taking your mothers body to be cremated? Just a thought. |
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Posted on: 2013/8/27 14:52
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Insane Hikki Fan
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Thank you for pointing this out, and your opinion.
A grieving Hikki not traumatised, grief is a natural response to loss, the suffering you feel when someone you love is taken away. The Families joint statement was touching, and yes forgiving, open, honest, and reaching out to all the well wishers in gratitude. These two short clips are honouring that fortitude, Hikki could have chosen a completely closed funeral cortege, the press could have been moved to a 'safe distance', however Hikki shows a coping style, even under profound sadness and regret. Coping is about sharing, and to share one has to witness. I feel the post is appropriate, however if you still find the clips upsetting I will remove the links. And that I humbly request will be last of the matter. |
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Posted on: 2013/8/27 15:36
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Addicted to Hikki
Joined: 2008/12/29
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I understand you all.In status of her fan I've really feel uncomfortable when I knew that her was in trauma emotional.
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Posted on: 2013/8/27 15:44
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Of course grief is the natural reaction to loss, but when you have cameras flashing in your face, I would like to think the experience and feelings are heightened and you would feel extremely vulnerable.
Like you said, its my opinion, so if you feel that having the links up is okay, then by all means keep them up. I wasn't trying to dictate what anyone can/can't post on this forum (as I am not even in any authority to do so). I just thought it was a bit strange. |
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Posted on: 2013/8/27 16:15
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Insane Hikki Fan
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If it is traumatic for members then it is inappropriate, whatever my opinion is.
I will take down in 24 hours, if members feel this is not rapid enough please indicate and I will deal asap. I agree it should not stay up any length of time. |
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Posted on: 2013/8/27 16:41
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Hikki Fanatic
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Wow, those videos were difficult to watch. Seeing Hikki's expression was heartbreaking.
However,Pips_Paradise has the right to post those links if he pleases. It's your choice whether you want to click on it or not. |
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Posted on: 2013/8/28 0:03
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Hope hikki will stay strong...maybe you shouldn't post the 2nd video...it's make the viewer feel so guilty to her when they watching it...
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Posted on: 2013/8/28 7:39
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Addicted to Hikki
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to be fair... if anyone dug hard enough... the video will still turn up somewhere in some search engine..
so, it's pointless to comment on it if we've all seen it.. and to the point that you can take notice of how close a camera gets means each of us have taken some thoughts and time to analyze the video.. curiosity just got the best of us, that's all can be said... on a different note... Quote: An update, and words of thanks for those who can read japanese Quote:
it seems that keiko's problem started a long time ago and according to teruzane... trying to help his wife has caused a rift between their lives...hence, what i believe led to their divorce as well... it also makes perfect sense now on why hikaru wrote arashi no megami dedicating it to her mother on singles collection vol.2... looking back at the lyrics now.. the statements made by both hikaru and teruzane shine so much light on what she was thinking of when writing that song... the interpretation of the lyrics is so much more different after knowing their side of the story and yet having to endure such a tough inter-family relationship for so many years and yet not utter a word about... and all along the time, we only knew that teruzane and keiko divorced and re-married each other 7 times and the incident where keiko had her money confiscated in US lead us to think many negative things about the utada family... imagive having to constantly be guessing what is going on with her life away from them and every phone call is a warrant for increasing levels of worry for her...one can only imagine those years are not at all easy for them... as teruzane says...what lead keiko to make the decision to take her own life and their in-ability to be at her side when she possibly needed them the most nor help her will forever be on their mind... |
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Posted on: 2013/8/28 8:19
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Addicted to Hikki
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a-kikoo...
does this paragraph means that the kuma power hour on the 17th of september will still proceed? 宇多田は2011年から「人間活動」を理由に音楽活動を無期限休止中だ。今年4月からInterFMで、月1回のレギュラー番組「KUMA POWER HOUR with Utada Hikaru」(第3火曜後10・0)を持っており、次回は9月17日放送予定。宇多田の肉声が注目される。 |
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Posted on: 2013/8/28 8:36
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source-Japantoday
Utada comments for first time on mother's apparent suicide "TOKYO — Singer Hikaru Utada on Monday commented for the first time on her mother’s apparent suicide last week. In a statement posted on her official website, Utada, 30, said: “I am proud to be the daughter of my mother. I have nothing but gratitude for everything she did for me.” Utada’s mother, Keiko Fuji, a former well-known enka singer, apparently jumped to her death from a 13th-floor apartment in Tokyo last Thursday. According to police, Fuji, 62, wearing a T-shirt and short pants, was found lying on the grounds of her apartment building in Shinjuku Ward at around 7 a.m. She was taken to hospital where she was pronounced dead. Police said Fuji lived in the apartment with a male friend in his 30s who was asleep at the time of the incident. Her slippers were found near the railing on the balcony, police said, but that no suicide note was found. Utada said her mother had been suffering from mental illness for many years. “She is finally freed from her agony but ... the way she ended her life was beyond sad. I am suffering from a sense of remorse,” Utada said. Utada also described her mother as “impulsive like a child but with an innocent charm that attracted everyone’s attention.” Although Fuji faced many dark periods in her life, Utada said she only remembers her mother laughing. Utada’s comments drew enormous interest from the public. As of 3 p.m., Utada’s website could not be accessed due to heavy traffic." |
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Posted on: 2013/8/28 17:20
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