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You know rather than seeming like a complete jerk by saying stuff amongst the lines of "I've been telling people this for years and nobody wants to listen." You should take into consideration who you're talking to, how out of context your comment can seem to be, and lastly take into consideration how long ago it was that the event took place. So basically you should have taken the time to ask "how long ago did you try sending her mail?" or ask "Did you find out what you were doing wrong?"

So to allow you to know the full story, I found out I needed a JP area code all on my own, but I didn't care enough to do silly reaserch for the sake of sending "fan mail." Thus I quit trying.

Moral to the story, making assumptions isn't always a good thing, and can rub someone the wrong way.

Happy Utadaneting!! :P