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you see i agree with you here. i've been thru the loss of someone i had hoped to spend my life with. and i did the same thing, move on without dealing with it. she's throwing herself into her work and responsibilities and pushing the pain away to the back off her mind. it's still there and it will come back to haunt her. and it will not be good. pent up or ignored pain and anguish will cast you into a hole so deep that you think you will never get out of it.
right now kuma is her focus for all her affections. he may be a bear to us but to her he's all she has. i just hope she somehow tries to deal with her sadness head-on. that's the only way. believe me, where she's headed is not good and only filled with pain.