Mikki wrote:
Ryu, how is everything going? You didn't tell us what happened after your last post, unless I just overlooked it.

jigenbakuda wrote:
This thread is so aweome it's like the story densha otoko (train man in english). I really wish I had one of these forums to ask for help with women, with real woman input! i had to learn everything the hard way, by myself demo daijyobu

Well if you need tips for asking girls to be your girlfriend or having confidence approaching, no one can help you, but yourself. I can tell you exactly what to say for any situation but you will probably forget it. If I tell you how to walk you'll forget. Everything you do must come from inside.

Now with that said there are some general tips I can give you to improve your interactions with women.
1.Smile- smiling is one of the single most important things you can do.
2.Don't worry about what to say- if you worry about what to say or a script you prepared, you will forget especially if you get nervous. Just have a conversation. You don't need to worry about what to say when you talk to a guy you just met, so why worry with a girl you just met.
3. Don't worry about rejection-If she likes you she likes you, if she doesn't she won't like you even if you said the perfect thing, with the perfect clothes, and in the perfect car. If she turns you down today, she will probably turn you down tomorrow. if she says yes today, she probably would of said yes a week ago when you first met eyes with her.
4.Approach her with respect-if you approach her, she knows why, her friends know why, the guy across the hall knows why, so she probably has her answer before you even get to her. (well unless you were doing sneak tactics with wing men to occupy her friends and then you just surprise her and start talking to her). So seeing as she already knows why you are talking to her, just don't mess up and say something offensive, or crazy.
5.ask her for her number-Unless she is aggressive she will not give her number to you on her own. If you have been having a good conversation with her, tell her it was a great conversation and you want to continue it later, what's your number so I can call you later.

Well these are just some tips to keep in your mind. Just like with anything if you want to be good you must practice. If you can just get 1 and 2 down, you will have everything you need.