Yea you have things to work out, but so does everyone. No one is perfect, So what. Well just because you are dating multiple women does not mean its meaningless. I'm not going to try to convince you to do otherwise but just know that dating is not a relationship. Dating is getting to know each other so you can see if you would like to be in a relationship with this person. It happens that most people these days do things in dating that should be done in relationships ex. sex, living together, paying for a women's stuff on a date. But in dating you don't have to do any of those things, all you need to do is get to know the person, see what they like, its like a mutual interview for a life partner. That's how dating should be seen. A company does not have to give you a bonus or promise you anything for a interview, so the same is true for relationships.

But anyways you will have a hard time finding a woman who is not shallow. I would suggest either finding a shy girl, a country girl, or someone out of america. I would guess they would be less shallow than a normal american girl. But no one knows. I recommend shy girls heavily, they are my favorite. Shy girls are the best girls and they are super cute to me. Also don't limit yourself to any race. You don't want to turn away a potential great partner just because they are a different color. So be open to all. Also don't be afraid to tell a woman no if she doesn't fit into your needs catagory. For example if you are religious and she is not, then why are you even talking to her? You will end up having problems later about that anyways. So have some things you need in a woman (preferably characteristics, not body parts, but if you need a certain body part, by all means put it in your list), then only talk to those types of women. This could help, maybe you talk to the wrong type of woman...