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Re: Japan...What I need to know
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jigenbakuda wrote:
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Paine101 wrote:
Hey guys,
This summer, I'm going to be leaving the U.S to go to Japan and I need to know as much as possible so I don't look like an "American Idiot" to them. So...to those who are living in or know anything about Japan...can you help me?


Sorry to break it to you, but there is nothing you can do to make yourself not look like an stupid american. You can learn the language, be versed in their poetry, you can play a teiko better than them, you can be respectful, but you will always be a 外人(gaijin). The japanese are very xenophobic. But I must admit, the younger people are less like that, but with old people...forget it. Now what you can do is not act like an *ss when you go to drink. You can be respectful, and you can be friendly. These things will earn you lots of friends in japan. Well the ones interested in gaijin. Well the major thing is not to rock the boat... Their culture frowns upon it... But If you are respectful, your time there should be enjoyable. But try to learn some japanese before you leave. Not every japanese person will know english, but a lot will, but just incase, learn some elementary japanese, just in case you run into someone who only knows japanese. Also get used to rice. Its not america...they eat rice with almost every meal. Try to make a friend in japan before you go. It will be so much easier!

Sorry if it came off as harsh at the start, but just telling you what I have learned and what I experienced. I spent 3 months there. But I talk to lots of americans who live in japan. direct your questions to gaijinpot.com, they are experts.

Ok, some things hes saying here are true, but things like "always eating rice" isnt exactly true and the Gaijin thing doesnt seem to really mean anything, well im not sure about grandparents and all but my host family and my friend's host family never referred us to gaijin or anything like that. You WILL be eating rice more than usual but you wont eat it EVERY day. When I went to Japan, I ate rice, actually, I ate rice a little less then I usually eat here in America, but im Asian, I live off of rice. Anyways, a couple of tips. When you talk to the Japanese people, don't give up on trying to communicate with people. Sure they might not understand what you might be saying, but making a few gestures to help them understand is always a good way to make communication. Giving up trying to communicate with them make them feel uncomfortable and stuff. Oh and taking a shower in Japan is quite different. Probably the RUDEST thing you can do it waste their water in their showers. Apparently, water tax in Japan is quite high so you will have to take a shower the Japanese way. That way is taking a quick rinse, turn off the shower, cover yourself with soap, shampoo, etc. and rinse it off. After, you can choose to take a nice and soothing bath in their little mini tub, this is HELLA RELAXING! Oh and if (You are staying with a host family right?) your host family is kinda bugging you too take a shower, it probably mean they want to take a shower cause in Japan, they have a special order in which family members takes baths. 1st is guest, 2nd is grandparents, 3rd is parents, and 4th-5th is children from oldest to youngest.

Really thats all you need to know. Just be friendly, talk alot, try to communicate with them as much as you can so it shows you have a bright personality. Hope you have as much fun as I did when I went to Japan.

Oh and question, which part of Japan are you going too?
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Posted on: 2007/12/25 3:01
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     Re: Japan...What I need to know CrescentLupin9 2007/12/24 15:00
       Re: Japan...What I need to know jigenbakuda 2007/12/24 17:29
         Re: Japan...What I need to know lumad 2007/12/24 17:47
         Re: Japan...What I need to know AnimeLunatic01 2007/12/25 3:01
           Re: Japan...What I need to know jigenbakuda 2007/12/25 20:49
             Re: Japan...What I need to know Sanosuke 2008/1/2 14:06
     Re: Japan...What I need to know Lord Snow 2007/12/24 20:10
     Re: Japan...What I need to know <3_UtadaHikaru_Aijin_<3 2007/12/24 20:50
     Re: Japan...What I need to know laijunjie14 2007/12/25 9:10
       Re: Japan...What I need to know <3_UtadaHikaru_Aijin_<3 2007/12/25 13:21
     Re: Japan...What I need to know Roscoe 2007/12/25 15:30
       Re: Japan...What I need to know Paine101 2007/12/25 18:32
         Re: Japan...What I need to know <3_UtadaHikaru_Aijin_<3 2007/12/25 18:44
     Re: Japan...What I need to know ioruk 2007/12/25 18:46
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