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My best advice to BoBoi and other young men is not to be overly solicitous or nice to interesting young women. I am a nice guy loser, and I can assure you from my many years of experience, and from a recent instructive video about dating more women than you can handle, that you should never, never, ever tell 'em you love 'em, for one example. If I can find the video, I will post it here. It is funny, but true. Basically, you have to trust your own male intellect and instincts, and distrust everything about what and how women think, or how social constructs tell you to act, such as "I am a sensitive, effeminate, non-threatening guy." Women actually run for the hills to get away from such men. That's the real world, not feminist ideological constructs. Do not "buy the party line" rather, be your own man, think for yourself, take initiative, cultivate your strengths and always play from a position of strength. Have confidence. Accept any rejections as a welcome learning experience, then move on immediately and without any regrets. Get out there and socialize. Dress well, get and keep a job, have good hygiene. Smiles and listening are more important than conversation or anything specific you say or do. Be affirmative, like a Salesman. To everything, your first response is "YES - Agreement." Learn body language. Learn to read people. You might also want to remember, that the best jobs, the best dates, and sometimes, the best marriages, result from friends who set you up, using their own best judgments. Never marry anyone you have not known for at least a year. Meet the family. Forestall heavy involvement and try to become friends first, before being lovers. Don't live together before marriage. And once you get married, stay married. It is a major commitment, but it makes for wealth creation and for family security all-around. Okay, here is the show: Could not find it.