My standards for a best friend are probably very low compared to yours, but I still think I have a best friend, his name is Jana, I wish he was a girl, no it's a guy. We sometimes don't meet for months at a time, he has other friends, we don't talk often, but we think alike. It doesn't seem that bad, our friendship, it's these things that make it special. The fact that we live in different countries also make it special. I've always had problems with defining what friends are, maybe coz I was a bad friend myself.