lol it's pretty easy to tell within a few minutes of hanging out whether you're going to like someone romantically or not, in my opinion. Like, I've went out on dinner dates with a few guys and as soon as I sat down and said "hi", I was thinking ".... yeah. NOT interested." and it sucked 'cuz I had to endure an hour of awkwardness and huge gaps of silence. I'm a very black and white person, though. heh. But who knows? Maybe you'll feel differently if you hang out again, Giga? Or maybe invite the girl to kick back with friends and see how THAT goes?

So, this is a reversed situation though... I'm about to re-arrange some faces at my work. The guys all know I have a boyfriend (even though we've been having issues) - and they all have -known- my boyfriend for years and years. BUT, now that he's gone to a different restaraunt, they're having a free-for-all hitting on me! I mean, I talk mad you-know-what to them, but there's a specific couple or 3 that are horrible about it. 2 are always wanting me to go out drinking with them, 1 of those 2 is constantly poking and touching at me (in which he gets a beatdown), and the other of those 3 is like "C'mon Guera, Panchito don't love you no more, come live with me" and i'm like "......STFU."

It's driving me crazy! I can handle it, and I know I screw around with them some, but I don't like... Hit on them like that or anything!