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LoBFCanti, use body language, you want to cheekily "lean in" a little, this subtly conveys neediness when you lean in, and is classic approval seeking behaviour. Remember to lean back a little too, you don?t want to topple into her lap, keep eye contact this will make you appear relaxed and confident, most importantly this will make her feel more relaxed and not feel like you're crowding her space. Tease, keep things light hearted by joking around, rather than being too serious, teasing is a highly effective attraction trigger if done correctly. The key here is to be funny, but not so much that you come off as the village idiot.

Talk about something you're really passionate about, maybe chose a Hikki song that might suit the occasion, revealing this to her might convey inner sensitivity, especially if you play the track to her, try and be casual, because these are things that show confidence.

My Dad used silly jokes when chatting up Mum when they first met at college..... one of Dad favourites:

Two carrots were walking down the road when a huge truck slammed into one of them. An ambulance was called and they rushed the little orange fellow off to the hospital where he immediately went into hours of surgery. Finally the doctor emerged and approached the other carrot that had been anxiously waiting in the waiting room. "Tell me and don?t spare the details, how is he?" The doctor replied, "I've got some good news and some bad news. The good news is he's going to live. The bad news is he's going to be a vegetable for the rest of his life.

Mum loves Dads sense humour, the thought that my conception could have come down to the quality of Dad jokes is somewhat alarming