Shurikid wrote:
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jesuislm wrote:
i'm in shock.
like wow.
i'm so glad i was on hiatus from this forum when the "hikki boobs fan club" showed up.
i would have thrown a fit.
it's ridiculous to have a fan club like that,
and it is degrading. i can't even believe that people are arguing that it's not.
so what, a girl can't wear a low cut shirt without expecting men to treat her like an object?
excuse me, but i see guys with their shirts of and i don't make a chest fan club for my favorite male celebrities.
want to know why? because you shouldn't be a fan of someone's body and only that unless this person is a porn star or sexualizes themselves for fame.
i mean, we can all agree: hikki is pretty, but that's not what she's about.

think about it:
if hikki saw a boob fan club for herself,
she wouldn't think it was nice,
funny,
amusing.
no.
it's insulting.
and anyone who tries to say otherwise, is through and through a fool. and an oblivious one at that.

Finally, a girl. You know you're the ONLY ONE to make a compelling argument against this thread so far? It's still faulted, however. You're assuming that the men in the "boobs fan club" viewed Hikki as an object- that's not necessarily true. What you're essentially saying is that men can not express appreciation for a prominent part of the female anatomy without viewing them on the same level as silverware or house furniture? That's ridiculous. Simply because you're attracted to someone or something AND SAY IT does not mean that you are degrading them.
And I'll bet you anything you HAVE discussed with your friends actors and singers you thought were "hot" or "sexy" or "cute". Or your friends have made similar comments to you and you have not objected. Do you think every time my sister makes googly eyes at Joe Jonas and says "he's so hot" she's demeaning him? Or does that only apply to women?
Speaking of clothes, I'm transgendered myself, so I would like to explain to you a little something about men. If you wear a dress or a shirt that reveals your breasts, they will look at them. If you wear pants or a mini-skirt that are designed to be sexually enticing, men are likely to be sexually enticed. If you don't want people looking at your body, wear a full-body cloak and a mask: otherwise, suck it up and realize that your low-cut shirt and high-tailed skirt are going to turn men on. Don't wear pants with "JUICY" written across your buttocks if you don't want men reading it; don't wear shirts with writing on your cleavage if you don't want men looking there. No one dresses you but you, and it's your responsibility to cover what you want covered and show what you'd like people to see. It's that simple.

Shuri/Eli