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SwallowTail wrote:
First of all sry for late reply and i'm gonna explained why i locked those thread
My consideration why i locked the thread
1. This is the biggest Utada fansite with over 7000 members, there are minor but if the public sees this it may look bad on this credibility of this site .
2. I'm not thinking on one perspective only.
First : Shuri/Eli you got wrong point of view when you said, when your sister talking a compliment about Joe Jonas (i don't know about him...The Jonas Brother Band perhaps, correct me if i'm wrong) and lets say we change Utada to your sister, first you guys said she got nice breast and you think its still a compliment and next they talking about nipple
http://www.utadanet.com/modules/newbb/viewtopic.php?topic_id=4048&viewmode=flat&order=ASC&start=40
and next they talk about booty what next another part of her body that gotten more privacy. Its not about sex orientation, i am gonna ask you ask brother will you or will you not consider that as a sexual harassment.And this time you were just a fans.
Second : Lets say this girl is your friends and think about what i said earlier
Third : Think as you were Teruzane Utada , does anyone of you ever think that thread also insult him since HIkaru were his daughter.
Fourth : Think you were on her side, she not consider that also a sexual harassment.
Sexual harassment not just physically , mentally but you can do that by words.
Should i wait until you guys cross the line as Utada Fans. Its not about picture but also words.
Another point of view. Let say you and your friends in a cafe and saw a sexy girl in your perspective. And you guys talking about part of her body and etc ,what id this girl know and her friends will she just quiet and not consider that as sexual harassment. And trying to take different view she was your friends. Will yo stand still and do nothing.
And this time we were just Utada fans no more no less , have any one of you ever spoke in person to Utada and be her friends.
And Quote:Sorry Hikki! We had to entertain ourselfs.. Havent heard from you so long!! we got bored
Is this a everybody reason for making the thread, or a sole purpose.
I am a man and yes i don't denied it she is sexy , but i prefer talk it not in public place where anyone can read it.
3. And with that reason does my right to lock the thread were solely my own purpose, because it was a popular thread. I'm not trying to liking you all, but like the first reason this is a public place. Does with those reason i explained to lock thread were solely my own purpose? no need to answer... ask yourself.
Thank you
SwallowTail
PS: if you guys have any question i will glad to answer it. Actually when i log on .. i thought there will be lots of PM regarding i lock the thread ..... but come on guys, only 2 PM i got
Thank you Swallowtail. I very much appreciate hearing your stance on this issue and your explanation as to why you locked the thread. Here is what I have to say:
I am not going to debate with you your morals and your feelings, because I've been doing that enough lately. Go look at any of my other posts and you will know my position. This isn't my concern, I was only debating with other people to pass the time and keep the thread alive; plus I tend to get drawn into tangents. In terms of your action and the motives behind it, which is what's bothering me, I have only one request: please cite a rule from the list of official UtadaNet forum rules (
http://www.utadanet.com/modules/newbb/viewtopic.php?topic_id=4&forum=1) which supports your decision and explain how and why it does so. If you are incapable of doing so, unlock the thread. Simple. If you, as a moderator, can not find a
rule which condones your action, compensate for it by fixing your action. This isn't about your
feelings or your
viewpoints, this is about being fair to the other members of the forums. If no rules were broken, then the thread should not have been locked.
Again, thank you for responding.
Shuri/Eli